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WHAT'S THE PRICE OF THIS LIFE?

WHAT'S THE PRICE OF THIS LIFE?

Lately I ain't been sleeping, staying up all night
Contemplating, trying to figure out just what's life
Could it be that it's just me when nothing's right?
Does anyone out there know what is like?

Feels like I'm drowning and I'm putting up a fight
But my strength is wearing out, not a life gone inside
I know I'm not supposed to show none of my weaknesses
But that just goes to show you how deep this is

Part of me is saying be a MAN, stand tall
But I would be foolish if I wouldn't think I can fall
When all I see about these four walls are closing in
I close my eyes and see my only friend

Even if I wanted to call it quits you wouldn't let me
Not only that, but you quit to come and uplift me
Through it all, you're the only one I'd listen to
From you I learnt that true love is unconditional

I wish that I could do for others what you do for me
Truthfully, I'm not even sure why you would root for me
Time and time again I stumble and I fall
But you still stick by me, I'm just humbled by it all

These words that I'm saying are long overdue
Only reason that I exist is all cause of you
So from here on now I promise to be a soldier
'Cause when I'm on the edge, you keep me from going over

Your love is precious, something that I just can't waste
As long as you're with me is nothing I can't face
Your love is like, your love is full of grace
I know for me there's gotta be a brighter day

I'll never question you again 'cause you're always right
And at the end of the darkest tunnel there's always light
Your love is like food to my soul

Only you can make me get up
Not understanding
Feeling like there's no one to turn to
And anybody
Don't worry about the things I can fall
You keep me from going over the edge, the edge, the edge, the edge
I AM READY TO DIE THAT I MAY GAIN YOU,
JESUS THE COST AND PRICE OF MY LIFE!!! — listening to MC Jin.

DIVORCE BANNED IN SWAZILAND

Romans 13: 1-7 "1. Let everyone be subject to the governing authorities, for there is no authority except that which God has established. The authorities that exist have been established by God. 

2 Consequently, whoever rebels against the authority is rebelling against what God has instituted, and those who do so will bring judgment on themselves. 

3 For rulers hold no terror for those who do right, but for those who do wrong. Do you want to be free from fear of the one in authority? Then do what is right and you will be commended. 

4 For the one in authority is God’s servant for your good. But if you do wrong, be afraid, for rulers do not bear the sword for no reason. They are God’s servants, agents of wrath to bring punishment on the wrongdoer. 

5 Therefore, it is necessary to submit to the authorities, not only because of possible punishment but also as a matter of conscience. 

6 This is also why you pay taxes, for the authorities are God’s servants, who give their full time to governing. 7 Give to everyone what you owe them: If you owe taxes, pay taxes; if revenue, then revenue; if respect, then respect; if honor, then honor."
MBABANE – King Mswati III says that there is no divorce in a marriage conducted under Swazi Law and Custom. The monarch said there was no earthly forum that had the powers to declare a customary marriage null and void. Only death, the King said, can bring a customary marriage to an end.

Of late the kingdom’s courts have seen an upsurge of cases where individuals married under Swazi Law and Custom want their marriages nullified. But the King said: “We do not even need to sign any documents to prove that marriage because you find that in future such documents are torn apart when some members of the family say the marriage is not in existence and, therefore, the documents should be torn. We do not have such under Swazi culture; we do not encourage it and practice this. All we know is that a person dies at their marital home. That is the Swazi way which was designed by God.”

The King said once a woman was smeared with red ochre (libovu), that meant the person was now a wife and therefore cannot be smeared with red ochre again by another family.Red ochre is a substance that a woman is smeared with during a ceremony known as kuteka, which is one of the early stages in customary marriage."

"Once you are smeared with red ochre, it is not like in a marriage where you can divorce and then go on to sign another marriage document with another man. Once you are smeared with red ochre, no other family can also do that to you because that would be taboo to them. Nothing would ever go well for that family.”

The King said even if a wife was to desert her husband, she would be fetched to mourn him once the man died. He noted that Swazi customary marriage was good and therefore encouraged that the youth should be taught about it.“The youth should know that once you get married traditionally, that marriage cannot be undone, yet other foreign forms of marriage can be undone,” said the King.


Follow through the scripture and see what the bible says;
1Corinthians 7:10-11 "To the married I give this charge (not I, but the Lord): the wife should not separate from her husband (but if she does, she should remain unmarried or else be reconciled to her husband), and the husband should not divorce his wife."

Luke 16:18“Everyone who divorces his wife and marries another commits adultery, and he who marries a woman divorced from her husband commits adultery."

Matthew 19:6 "So they are no longer two but one flesh. What therefore God has joined together, let not man separate.”

Romans 7:2 "For a married woman is bound by law to her husband while he lives, but if her husband dies she is released from the law of marriage."

Malachi 2:16 “For the man who does not love his wife but divorces her, says the Lord, the God of Israel, covers his garment with violence, says the Lord of hosts. So guard yourselves in your spirit, and do not be faithless.”

Hebrews 13:4 "Let marriage be held in honor among all, and let the marriage bed be undefiled, for God will judge the sexually immoral and adulterous."

Matthew 6:10 "Your kingdom come, your will be done, on earth as it is in heaven."

Glory and Praise be to the God and Father of our Lord Jesus Christ! In his great mercy he has given us new birth into a living hope through the resurrection of Jesus Christ from the dead,

AMEN!!!

“We cannot have CHRISTIANS saved by the blood of Jesus supporting people of this world who are tearing down the kingdom of God.”

This is a story i read online and i thought i should post it here also just to emphasize and encourage you on what it means to be a Christian and what it entails to follow Christ. I have added a few scriptures just to clarify.

Galatians 2:20 "I have been crucified with Christ; and it is no longer I who live, but Christ lives in me; and the life which I now live in the flesh I live by faith in the Son of God, who loved me and gave Himself up for me."

On Saturday, Mt. Salem voted him out for attending a local Rick Ross concert.

With a vote of 11 to 3, the 14 deacons met at 11pm Saturday night to discuss and come to a conclusion that they did not need his services anymore. Rev. Wills arrived to the church the next day for Sunday morning worship service and notice his parking sign taken down and his name removed from the office door.

The deacons even asked another minister from the community to officiate the service that morning. “We cannot have our leader supporting people of this world who are tearing down the kingdom of God.” said Deacon Miles Langley.

According to Deacon Langley, this is not the first time Rev. Wills has attended a concert while pastoring Mt. Salem. 9 months ago the diaconate board met with Rev. Wills when word was given to them that many youth and young adults spotted the pastor at a Lil Wayne concert.

“We know that many saints will have mixed opinions from our actions, but this is not how we do things here at Mt. Salem. We cannot have a pastor praising the world one minute then praising the Lord the next. Period” said Deacon Langley.

1 Corinthians 10:21 "You cannot drink the cup of the Lord and the cup of demons ; you cannot partake of the table of the Lord and the table of demons."

Rick Ross recently made nationwide news when he was dropped from Reebok and other endorsements for lyrics advocating rape towards women. ”Put Molly all in her Champagne/ She ain’t even know it/ I took her home and I enjoyed that/ She ain’t even know it,” he raps on the track. Ref: http://scoophunters.com/2013/08/07/church-sacks-pastor-for-attending-rick-ross-concert/ 

The Moral of this article is that we ought to set an example as Christians, Galatians 1:5 "Therefore be imitators of God, as beloved children;" If we imitate God what would we have done? Do you think if Jesus was on earth would go and pay some money to listen and raise His hands to Rick Ross's music - full of the profane language and naked women - I don't think so!

You might be wondering thinking that we are busy "judging" a soul that Christ died for but the Bible says; (1 Corinthians 5:9-12) “I wrote to you in my epistle not to keep company with sexually immoral people. Yet I certainly did not mean with the sexually immoral people of this world, or with the covetous, or extortioners, or idolaters, since then you would need to go out of the world. But now I have written to you not to keep company with anyone named a brother, who is sexually immoral, or covetous, or an idolater, or a reviler, or a drunkard, or an extortioner—not even to eat with such a person. For what have I to do with judging those also who are outside? Do you not judge those who are inside? But those who are outside God judges.”

According to the above scripture, you can see that Christians ought to be rebuked, corrected and judged if they do not value the life that Jesus Christ made available to them (or if they abuse the liberty they have in Christ Jesus). We cannot drag the name of the Lord in the mud. Think before you act and always listen to the Holy Spirit you are the light of the world and you are the salt of the earth, do not be hidden but shine and show the Glory of God or else you be trampled on by foot if you lose your saltiness.

The Bible says “if you’re a card carrying member of the Church and you believe in Jesus and you want to be one of His followers, then we need to hold you to a higher standard. Following Jesus – like everything else that is rewarding in life – won’t be easy. You are going to have to make some sacrifices and some tough decisions. And because we love you, we are going to hold you accountable to those tough decisions. We will hold you to a higher standard.”

But to the non-believers or those outside the Church, the Bible says “We don’t judge you. We love you and accept you as you are – no matter where you’ve been or what you’ve done. We want you to know the love of God which surpasses all understanding and we know that once you taste that love, you too will be compelled to a higher standard of living. We don’t judge you; we love you.”

That is my opinion, comment below!!!
“We cannot have CHRISTIANS saved by the blood of Jesus supporting people of this world who are tearing down the kingdom of God.”

The lion, which is mightiest among beasts and does not turn back before any; Proverbs 30:30

IT IS ABOUT TIME

The lion, which is mightiest among beasts and does not turn back before any; Proverbs 30:30

SOMETIMES A LION GETS INTO TEARS NOT BECAUSE ITS BEEN DEFEATED IN THE BUSH.

BUT BECAUSE sometimes in the bush the rules of natural selection gets distorted by poachers.
Poachers who just kill the rhinos for one thing the Horn and leave the meat nje, coz they have the horn!!!
The Poacher has come to steal, kill and destroy
You can see by the motives
You can even tell be the how much in a hurry he is
The poacher has been to most jungles, killing for the horn

The poachers ain't gonna be hear any longer as the Lion was created for this very purpose and such a time as this.

Its gonna be alright Lion
Its gonna be alright King of the Jungle
You were placed in the jungle for a reason
Once a King always a King
Don't give up
Your territory and the animal Kingdom was bestowed on you
Never give up
Put your foot down and stand your ground.
Remember, u can Roar
Some need to hear that Roar
To know that enough is enough
You can cry now Lion and bath in tears.
Pain may endure a night but joy comes in the morning
You know the joy of the Master is your strength
Crying may seem like a weakness but the strength is perfected in your weaknesses.
Poachers may think your not the King anymore
Little do they know that those tears are watering the ground so u can have more grip to fight back
Fight Lion, Fight
For such a purpose you were created
For such a time you have been born
Set an example of how a real Lion behaves
Set an example to the upcoming ones
Show them how u defend Your jungle
Show them you don't jump one jungle to another because of poachers
Roar in your closet
Roar and make your Master proud
Roar with the wildest roar ever
Roar and shake the camps of the enemy out of your jungle
This ain't the playing ground no more
Your jungle deserves the best
The best that the Master prepared for it,
The Master placed you in jungle because he trusted you Lion
He trusted you with the life of the jungle
He gave u room in the caves
He gave u sharp long teeth
He gave you strong paws to strike
Strength to run and never look back
Above all The Master supplies all of your needs
All you gotta do is stand in the gap Lion King and allow the Master' will to reign
Stand in the gap and roar
Roar till there is an earthquake
Poachers know the effects of an earthquake and tremble
Roar till the grounds shake as if its a mighty army approaching
Poachers know an army and they run for their lives.
Be sincere and stand your ground
Roar from the deepest parts of your heart
I know the jungle is everything to you, the Master pointed to you when He placed you there
The Master equipped you for a reason, and told you one day you will have to fight
Its good you have marked your territory and are never turning back
You have dedicated yourself to the jungle till death do ..... part.
Roar Lion Roar
Fight for your jungle , the Master created you for such a time as this!!!
May grace and peace be with you in abundance.

They shall go after the Lord; he will roar like a lion; when he roars, his children shall come trembling from the west; Hosea 11:10

Poetry by ~ Phillip Sinothi Moyo

SALVATION PRAYER

YOUNG COUPLES WHO ARE IN RELATIONSHIPS FOR MARRIAGE BUT NOT YET MARRIED.

DISCLAIMER: This article is primarily meant for young people in Christ who are seeking answers on questions regarding relationships. The article below draws its conclusions by applying principles from the Holy Bible. I am not encouraging you to get into relationships prematurely. Proverbs 3:6 "In all thy ways acknowledge Him, And He will direct thy paths. Psalm 119:9 "How can a young man keep his way pure? By keeping it according to Your word."

  1 Corithians 13:4-7 "Love is patient and kind. Love is not jealous or boastful or proud or rude. Love does not demand its own way. Love is not irritable, and it keeps no record of when it has been wronged. It is never glad about injustice but rejoices whenever the truth wins out. Love never gives up, never loses faith, is always hopeful, and endures through every circumstance."

Sometimes in our relationships, as we prepare for marriage, we do not really know how to handle ourselves, how to behave, how to treat each other, or still we don't even know whether we are supposed to be in the relationship or not. This article might not appeal to many as you may have wished, however, there are those that are pursuing relationship for marriage, just like Mary had been betrothed to Joseph. There are very few bible verses that talk about premarital relationships and all the related issues that will be mentioned below, nonetheless; whatever point I will stress here, will be supported by a relevant verse so that we do not chase the wind in our pursuit for marriage.

Premarital counseling is a great way to build a relationship with God, and if we get it wrong at this stage we might not even end up getting married or, ultimately run into great problems when we are married. Attend more seminars or church programmes for more information on premarital counseling. Proverbs 4:7 "The beginning of wisdom is: Acquire wisdom; And with all your acquiring, get understanding."  Hosea 4:6 "My people are destroyed for lack of knowledge. Because you have rejected knowledge, I also will reject you from being My priest. Since you have forgotten the law of your God, I also will forget your children." Using (Bible-based) premarital counseling is a great way to get to know each other better. You may find out some things about your potential spouse that you don't like. Now is the time to address these issues, not after you have already gotten married, because you would not want to be part of statistics due to your ignorance.

HOW TO KEEP OUR YOUNG PREMARITAL RELATIONSHIPS SANCTIFIED

• FIRSTLY, marriage according to Ephesians 5:22-33 is a mystery that depicts Christ's marriage to the church, so you ought to understand that before you pursue any relationship for marriage.
• Meaning that marriage is for Born-Again Christians, likewise you cannot be unequally yoked with an unbeliever. So it is a relationship for Spirit-filled people, not for unbelievers because they do not understand the mystery of marriage. So if you are reading this and are in a relationship for marriage but not born-again, then you are not supposed to be in the relationship altogether, use this to be equipped. I will later on include a salvation prayer in another article on the blog, so that you get your story right first and seek a relationship with Jesus before you pursue that lady, or allow a man to pursue you. I say this because in any relationship problems will come but if you don't know why you are in that relationship and are not grounded in Christ you will crumble and fall, then break up.
• As people of God, we cannot be driven by culture, however Scripture should drive us in all that we do and in relationships we engage in.
• So in that relationship there should be 3 parties: you, your partner and Jesus. As you submit to each other you must have reverence for Christ, its that simple.

• SECONDLY, Hebrews 13:4 "Marriage is to be held in honor among all, and the marriage bed is to be undefiled; for fornicators and adulterers God will judge" 1 Corinthians 6:18 "Flee from sexual immorality. All other sins a person commits are outside the body, but whoever sins sexually, sins against their own body" Fornication means sex before marriage, and adultery is sleeping with a person who is married to someone else. A Premarital relationship is not marriage, likewise promising someone that you will marry them does not equal marriage.
• The point here is this: AVOID PHYSICAL CONTACT/CLOSENESS, as much as we are attracted to our partners we ought to avoid such contact, especially when we are in isolated places. Save those intimate moments for marriage by abstaining. You know, in terms of practicality in this matter, I won't define right or wrong contact, you have the Holy Spirit to lead you. Paul says, if you burn with desire get married (1 Cor 7:36),  but if you do not want to marry  but are still burning with desire then do not be intimate either, get out of the relationship and seek guidance from God.
• Sexually transmitted diseases have spread as a result of an increase in sexual activity outside of marriage, a condom will not protect you from the wrath of GOD.

• THIRDLY, STOP FAKING AND KEEP TO YOUR CHARACTER. 1 Timothy 6:6 "But godliness with contentment is great gain." Galatians 5:22-23 " But the fruit of the Spirit is love, joy, peace, forbearance, kindness, goodness, faithfulness, gentleness and self-control. Against such things there is no law." Be true to yourself and to those whom you shall relate to, use the fruits of the spirit and check yourself. It doesn't help to fake who you are, or lie to others about your true identity , rather manifest now so that you will be helped sooner rather than later.

• FOURTHLY, ECCLESIASTES 1:9 "That which has been is that which will be, And that which has been done is that which will be done. So there is nothing new under the sun." Learn to LISTEN and get COUNSEL from those that have gone before you, it's easy: just allow to be corrected by those above you as well. God put them there for a reason. Titus 3:1 "Remind the people to be subject to rulers and authorities, to be obedient, to be ready to do whatever is good."   Psalm 1 says, 'blessed is the man who does not walk in the counsel of the ungodly,' so it's better you seek godly counsel. 
  

• 1 Thessalonian 5:11 "So encourage each other and build each other up, just as you are already doing." As much as you are in this relationship together always learn to ENCOURAGE ONE ANOTHER. This will eventually build more love, trust and security in the relationship. Above all, you can create some time to pray together and even share the word together with your partner, meaning to say that if your partner is an unbeliever, your relationship will not work out, because you do not pray and share the word together. Don't ever think that, by unequally yoking yourselves,  you will change your partner, what if they change you??? . Ephesians 4:29 "Do not let any unwholesome talk come out of your mouths, but only what is helpful for building others up according to their needs, that it may benefit those who listen." 

• Be UNITED in the Spirit of God. Romans 12:1-2 "Therefore, I urge you, brothers and sisters, in view of God’s mercy, to offer your bodies as a living sacrifice, holy and pleasing to God—this is your true and proper worship. Do not conform to the pattern of this world, but be transformed by the renewing of your mind. Then you will be able to test and approve what God’s will is—His good, pleasing and perfect will.", now they are to serve Christ together as a unit and raise their children to serve God

• FINALLY, If you say you are in this relationship for the right reason of marriage then marriage rules should apply so that you will not eventually fail when you get there. Ephesians 5:21-25 "Submit to one another out of reverence for Christ.Wives, submit yourselves to your own husbands as you do to the Lord. For the husband is the head of the wife as Christ is the head of the church, His body, of which He is the Savior. Now as the church submits to Christ, so also wives should submit to their husbands in everything.Husbands, love your wives, just as Christ loved the church and gave Himself up for her." 

• ALLOW THE MAN TO LEAD and remember the bible does not recognize marriage within the same gender(1 Cor 6:9). So the man referred to here will always be the male sex being head over the female one, do not get it twisted.
• If he doesn't have the leadership skills pray for him and support him at all times. A man who leads is the first to serve, or bleed or die, just like Christ. "Normally men watch better than they listen, so whatever you do in action ladies, will impact your partners than the words you say"  
• No woman needs to accept the proposal of any man, but if she does, she should accept his headship as an act of faith in Christ's Lordship. Ephesians 5:22, do it with an act of willingness and gentleness (like Mary did to Joseph)  or else do not be in the relationship if you are not ready.
• But that doesn't mean men are superior to women, we are all equals, any relationship that leads to marriage means it is a partnership between equals, a wife's spiritual submission is given and not taken, so men, you don't have to demand that. Be a man who earns his LADY'S submission do not abuse YOUR lady and violate her in order to get her to submit to you.

The seven points mentioned above are not exhaustive, but are sufficient for the young relationships to be carried out in purity and all holiness before marriage. 1 Timothy 4:12 "Don't let anyone look down on you because you are young, but set an example for the believers in speech, in conduct, in love, in faith and in purity."

Malachi 2:15 "Has not the one God made you? You belong to him in body and spirit. And what does the one God seek? Godly offspring.So be on your guard, and do not be unfaithful to the wife of your youth.“The man who hates and divorces his wife,” says the LORD, the God of Israel, “does violence to the one he should protect,”says the LORD Almighty. So be on your guard, and do not be unfaithful."
My final word to you is this; guard you heart will all diligence, for out of it are the issues of life, also work out your salvation with fear and trembling. Be careful for nothing; but in every thing by prayer and supplication with thanksgiving let your requests be made known unto God and the peace of God, which surpasseth all understanding, shall keep your hearts and minds through Christ Jesus. I also pray that you grow in the grace and knowledge of our Lord and Savior Jesus Christ. To him be glory both now and forever! Amen.

(SUBMIT YOUR QUESTION BELOW, there is a lot to say and more will be addressed based on your questions!!!)

A Barber's Story: Does God Exist?

A man went to a barber shop to have his hair and his beard cut as always. He started to have a good conversation with the barber who attended him. They talked about so many things and various subjects. Suddenly, they touched the subject of God. The barber said: "Look man, I don't believe that God exists as you say."

"Why do you say that?" asked the client.

"Well, it's so easy, you just have to go out in the street to realize that God does not exist. Oh, tell me, if God existed, would there be so many sick people? Would there be abandoned children? If God existed, there would be no suffering nor pain. I can't think of loving a God who permits all of these things."

The client stopped for a moment thinking, but he didn't want to respond as to cause an argument. The barber finished his job and the client went out of the shop. Just after he left the barber shop he saw a man in the street with a long hair and beard (it seems that it had been a long time since he had his cut and he looked so untidy).
Then the client again entered the barber shop and he said to the barber, "You know what? Barbers do not exist."

"How can you say they don't exist?" asked the barber. "Well I am here and I am a barber."

"No!" the client exclaimed. "They don't exist because if they did there would be no people with long hair and a beard like that man who walks in the street."

"Ah, barbers do exist, what happens is that people do not come to me."

"Exactly!"- affirmed the client. "That's the point. God does exist, what happens is people don't go to Him and do not look for Him. That's why there's so much pain and suffering in the world."

Amen!

WHAT COMES WITH DATING???

"Unless a man is prepared to ask a woman to be his wife, what right has he to claim her exclusive attention? Unless she has been asked to marry him, why would a sensible woman promise any man her exclusive attention?"

Genesis 2:24 "Therefore shall a man leave his father and his mother, and shall cleave unto his wife: and they shall be one flesh."

BELOW ARE SEVEN DEFECTS IN "DATING"

• Dating leads to intimacy, but not necessarily commitment.
• Dating, shorten (or sometimes tends to skip) the friendship stage of a relationship.
• Dating mistakes a physical relationship for love.
• Dating isolates a couple from other vital relationships.
• Dating can cause discontentment with God's Gift of singleness.
• Dating creates an artificial environment for evaluating someone's character.

You can never be too lonely AND rushing into an intimate relationship is not the solution, here are some hints to avoid premature "dating" relationships.

• KNOW YOUR INTENTIONS OF PURSUING FRIENDSHIPS WITH PARTICULAR PEOPLE.
• THE KEY PRINCIPLE TO FRIENDSHIP IS ABOUT FOCUSING ON COMMON GOALS AND OBJECTS, RATHER THAN BEING INVOLVED INTIMATELY, OTHERWISE IT BECOMES MORE THAN FRIENDSHIP.
• INCLUDE OTHER PEOPLE ALSO INSTEAD OF ISOLATING YOURSELVES WITH JUST ONE PERSON (that can induce lustful thoughts, temptation then sin)
• SEEK OPPORTUNITIES TO SERVE THAN TO BE ENTERTAINED. (1 John 2:17 )

Philippians 4:8 "Finally brothers and sisters. Fix your thoughts on what is true, and honorable, and right, and pure, and lovely, and admirable. Think about things that are excellent and worthy of praise.

IF YOU ARE SINGLE (or IN A MEANINGLESS DATING RELATIONSHIP) THINK ON THESE THINGS.

1. Ecclesiastes 11:9 "...be happy while you are young, and let your heart give you joy in the days of your youth. ...but know that for all things God will bring you into judgement."
2. Ecclesiastes 12:1 "Remember your Creator in the days of your youth, before the days of trouble come and the years approach when you will say, "I find no pleasure in them"--
3. While you are a man, or woman, and still single; seek God wholeheartedly (Hebrews 11:6) and put Jesus first in all things and everything else will fall into place you don't have to rush (Matthew 6:33)
4. Don't worry about impressing other people, especially the opposite sex; again I say don't worry. Strive to please and glorify God and along the way you will catch the attention of people with same priorities.
5. in Genesis 24, Rebekah was rightfully carrying her obligations and she had the willingness to serve others and her qualities put her in the right place, at the right time with the right attitude as God strategically positioned her for Isaac.
6. Holy Matrimony is and was never designed for "boys" and "girls" or lazy people (Its for a man and His Wife - Genesis 2: 24). It is a radical coarse of action intended for mature people who are prepared, and eager to surrender wholeheartedly their own will with submission to one another. 
7. As much as a model wears clothing to attract attention to the designer's creativity and work, the designer;s reputation is on the line, not the model. Such is God's perfect love, it is not only for our benefit but as servants (models) of Christ ( Galatians 1:10) people are watching us and what they see affects God's reputation for loving His creation.

Before you think of Marriage (let alone "dating" or "courting" or "betrothal") believe it is the will of God that you should marry, if that has not been revealed yet you have no business in marriage and if you have no relationship with Christ seek Him first. Marriage (or "dating" or "Courting" or "Betrothal") storms will come and if that relationship is not grounded in the perfect will of God, you will feel TRAPPED, GROW WEARY, AND 'WHAT IF I HAD "DATED" ANOTHER CHRISTIAN' THOUGHTD and a double minded man will not receive anything. (JAMES 1:7-8)

PRAYER:

"Lord, help me to appreciate this woman/man without elevating her/him above you in my heart. Help me to remember that nobody can ever take your place in my life. You are my strength, my hope, my joy, and my ultimate reward. Bring me back to reality, God. Give me an undivided heart."